There's no right or wrong way of handling any situation in life. You have to put all your cards on the table and be realistic about the advantages and disadvantages while keeping in mind your well-being and the ones you love most well-being too. It's never going to be easy and more than likely it will hurt like hell but you just have to do the best you can until you can't anymore.
The focus should never be the choice you made but the actions before them that took place. Were they selfless, honest, with good intentions, and kind, and how God instructed them to be? Did they improve or debilitate the people involved? Or were they to benefit your own self? You'll face some of the most impossible situations, torn between holding on and letting go because your heart and mind are at war with themselves.
Know I am facing those kinds of situations as I write this unable to stand without tears falling from my eyes and don't forget I hear my Father, Jesus. He hasn't stopped calling my name through it all but my heart the stubborn thing holds on! I know the blessing I have with my heart but the burdens my gosh! They come in waves and with emotions, I am still learning to harness but I'm losing myself loving and caring for people who can't see the damage it's inflicting upon me and my children.
That's the thing about us we have been in the worst and most unforgivable situations with no one to help us and we never ever want anyone to ever feel like this, so we give and give until we have nothing left. I know that Jesus waits for us knowing we will give up the fight only he can take on but he stays through it all because he understands us.
He knows the caring heart that calls his name in our bodies, he knows the soul within us that urns to help, and he understands only through love can all things be healed. And despite knowing the odds we help even though we can see the war inside them from the beginning because Jesus placed an unrecognisable love within us that provides hope through the gestures only our love can bring.
I know that by trusting Jesus everything will be ok but I'll always do what I can before I leave them but I accept and recognise when it is my time to let go. So, Jesus, it's now over to you. Be grateful for every moment in life good and bad because you'll never know the enormity of the change it can bring both in yourself and others.
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